Written and delivered by Park Maitland alumnus Dylan Rhodes, who is a National Merit Finalist and distinguished graduate of Phillips Academy Andover.
Graduates, family, and friends, I am Dylan Rhodes, Park Maitland Class of 2004. Many of you know me personally, and let me say preemptively that, yes, I have grown quite a bit since I left. For those of you who didn’t know a small, big-eared kid who combed back and parted his hair every morning, don’t worry, I know that we share a lot in common. I know that because every person in this room is connected. Just by virtue of being here, you have all illustrated a commitment to quality education and the academics. Park Maitland stands for excellence in those areas, and we are all linked together through the school.
Now the fact that I am speaking at a graduation ceremony might give some of you the impression that today, our sixth graders will be leaving us. I want to assure you that this is not the case. Today’s graduation is the first of many steps for the class of 2010, but from experience, I can tell you that they will never really be leaving Park Maitland for good. What’s more, to the graduates now, you shouldn’t. Look around, you have a lot of friends in this room. Tonight may be the last time you attend school together, but that’s not a reason to cut off your connections. You’ve spent some great years with these people, and you should not let these relationships go to waste.
Further, to those of you who might be worried because next year marks the first separation from many of your friends, don’t be. As someone who goes to school a thousand miles away from here, I can tell you that distance is not an obstacle to friendship, and the people you’re sitting with now can easily still be at your side in six years. Moreover, regardless of whether you visit Park Maitland ten times next year or none at all, the school is not going to leave you. Park Maitland has taught you all values that you will always hold dear.
When I left this place, it looked vastly different. The new gymnasium, music classrooms, and athletic fields have all grown up since I departed, but Park Maitland is still the same place. Were I to begin K-4 next fall, I suspect that I would learn the same values of cooperation and respect that I took away six years ago. What’s more, I never left those values behind, and neither will any of you. There’s not so much distance between me today and that big-eared kid who was run over by Big Bertha in the mulch.
Come back, though. Come back to see the people you leave behind here. Come back because you learned something. Come back because you had fun. I was only the bartender and man-singing-badly-in-the-background in my sixth grade play, but I had the time of my life that night. The best way to remember the good times is to go back to the places they happened. I’ll tell you right now that you may never have another roller skating party and that’s perfectly fine. Just because it won’t happen again, though, doesn’t mean that you should forget it. So come back and visit if it’s at all possible and keep your Parkie friends close.
That said, next year will be different. Middle school will be a very new experience for all of you. You’ll no longer be the big men on campus, and that’s a tough transition to make. Middle school will in many ways be harder than the schooling you’ve had up until now and there will be more pressure on most of you to succeed. The next two years will be important for you all. That said, take some time for yourselves over the next few years. Junior high should be time you take to find your interests.
Some of you may already be passionate about something, and that’s great. You already have a huge head start. When I was in your shoes here, though, I had absolutely no idea how I would want to spend my time. Before seventh grade, I didn’t know what computer science was, yet now I’ve decided to make it my prospective major next year in college. Similarly, I had never tried debate or Ultimate Frisbee before high school. But now, those are some of my favorite activities. It took a lot of sampling to find things I truly enjoy, but all of that experimenting was time well spent.
As you get older there are more and more clubs, sports, and activities to participate in. Even for those of you who already have a passion, keep an open mind. You have time to try everything, and you never know what you’ll enjoy. Despite that advice, don’t take yourselves too seriously. You don’t need to be Tiger Woods or Michael Phelps two years from now. Take time to just hang out with your friends or watch a movie. In many ways, that’s what middle school is about. Make time for your friends and make new ones. Next year you’ll all be meeting a lot of new people. Don’t be intimidated; they’re all like you, and I guarantee that some of them will soon be your best friends. Keep your Parkie friends close, but always be prepared to meet new people.
My final message to the graduates is to remember the people who have gotten you here. This ceremony is a celebration of the culmination of your work here at Park Maitland, yes, but you didn’t get to this stage alone. Look at the audience. By this point, your parents have probably picked you up and dropped you off to school, sports, and sleepovers about a thousand times. They’ve probably made about ten times as many cupcakes as most people do in a lifetime and heard fifty nifty more times than the Star Spangled Banner. Now I’m not suggesting that they weren’t happy to do all of that for you, because they were, and they’re here tonight because they love you and care about your success. However, let’s be honest, all of the parents here tonight deserve your thanks, both for the things they have done and the things they will do for you. You aren’t going to need any fewer cupcakes now that you’re not at Park Maitland anymore. So, take the time tonight to thank your parents, and maybe your Washington chaperone, and maybe the person who helped you with makeup before the play. They’ve earned it ten times just today.
There’s another contingency here that deserves recognition, and that’s the people who work at Park Maitland. I know they were there for me when I dislocated my thumb playing soccer in PE, when I tried to write a twenty page paper in third grade because I really didn’t know when to stop back then, and yes, when I hit a kid with my lunchbox and had to go to the office. I would bet that all of you have been helped by the teachers, staff, and administrators here today, without whom you wouldn’t have had a play, a beach sleepover, a trip to Williamsburg, sports fest, or the Winter Ball, just to name a few. Without these people, Q & U would have never gotten married!
Joking aside, the men and women in this room have each made lasting contributions to your education, and they all ought to have your respect and gratitude. That’s why I’ll start off the thanks tonight. I’d like to thank Ms. Betsy Harbin, Colleen Finwall, Sandra Farkash, Bess Auer, Sharon Ventimiglia, and Coach Kevin Meisel for their stunning contributions to my own education as well as Park Maitland as a whole. I’d also like to thank my family in the audience for putting up with me, and all of the faculty, staff, and administrators here who helped make me the person I am today. Finally, to those of you still awake, thanks for hearing me out.
To the class of 2010: Good luck and Godspeed.